My little sister is engaged.
and instead of celebrating with her, I'm crying at my own singleness.
and I hate myself for it.
I feel like the only one of my friends who is not in a relationship. Yet my logical side tells me that my feelings are lying to me.
I want to be in a relationship. And yet as I write those words, I feel shame because I think that means I'm not enjoying my period of singleness like I've been reminded to do by pastors, married women, and once-married women alike.
I hope to be married in the next five to ten years. Yet I think I am afraid of commitment.
Somewhere in the craziness of driving on the road called Life - going to college and making great memories and dealing with horrible illnesses and falling in love with Jesus - I seem to have spaced on what turnoff I was wanting to take. I feel like I just discovered that the road that I wanted to go on at some point in the future is nowhere to be found now. I've taken so many other great roads that have led me on a journey to this incredible city of Seattle, so why am I so attached to this one path?
If life is a highway as Tom Cochrane so eloquently put it, then I think I missed the turnoff that leads to a romantic relationship.
If life is a highway, then I've traveled down roads of medical issues that aren't supposed to be driven at the age of twenty-one.
If life is a highway, then I've found a way to drive slowly on the road of college.
If life is a highway, then I think I went off-roading.
I have to believe that I haven't missed the road for a relationship. I have to believe that it is somewhere in my future travels.
I have to learn to be okay with the fact that I may be exploring and off of the main road for a while. For whatever reason, it's not time for me to take the road to relationship. If only my heart would remember that life is not stagnant.
I am on a journey and every day brings something new.
Someday, Jesus will let me know that it's time to turn onto that road to relationship. But that day is not today. I have to wait and trust that the One who carried me through my desert storm has my itinerary and will be with me every step of the way.
Today, I choose to let Jesus drive.
Today, I choose to sit back and relax and just enjoy the road trip.
Today, I choose to see the beauty on the road that I am on.
Today, I choose to not worry about the itinerary.
Jesus doesn't need my help in navigating so,
today, I choose to let him take me on an adventure.